regarding the possibility of cody bear’s baby sister….
i pretty much have called everyone i know today and yesterday. got some voicemails, talked to some folks. also…got some great feedback from blog friends. i have to say, i’m weighing the post from blog friends pretty heavily, as we have heard eachother’s voices pretty loudly through font-on-blog these last few months. with the exception of one person, everyone i actually spoke to or read words from supports the idea. funny thing, the people who didn’t answer are the ones i expected would think it was a stupid idea to get another dog!
here is cody bear….waiting for his baby sister…

here were the big CONS:
money, time at work, cody bear’s “issues”, hard to find someone to watch pets when i leave town, small house, cat, i take it hard when the pets get sick,
ok, here are the pros:
before i counter the cons….
1. i’m not sure what i want to do with my life, where i want to live, of anything….but i do know i want a dog.
2. for the last two years i have used cody’s not liking dogs as an excuse, but he does like some dogs and he is so lonely. nowadays, when he sees dogs, he wants to play. his friend’s families are too busy for play dates. he is SO LONELY.
3. i love dogs. i’m a good dog mom.
ok, addressing the cons:
money: i am never going to be rolling in the dough. so, shall i never get another pet? that goes against who i am. i’m not rich and i have pets. it’s ok. even with cody bear’s illness, he has NEVER missed out on medical care.
time at work: i get to come home for lunch every day normally. i have some vacation time to welcome a new puppy.
cody bear’s issues(being health and fear of dogs): he has never gone so long without barfing! we’ve found a great diet, and an exercise plan that works. he actually misses his dog friends.
hard to find pet sitter: lets revisit the financial issue, shall we. dog sitters are a crappy argument, since i never have enough money to actually go on vacation anyway!
small house: yes the house is small, but the yard is HUGE. and, its not like dogs do an obstacle course while i’m away. adults sit and wait till you get home….puppies chew up small houses just as well as big houses!
cat: the cat loves dogs, wishes cody would play with her more, even. plus, getting a puppy, he will grow up knowing he has to treat her gently and …. learn that she isn’t food.
taking it hard when pets get sick. yes, i have no argument for this. i still miss loki every day….
anyway, thanks everyone for your input!
i’ll keep you posted. after all, this rescue group may not approve me anyway….